Thursday, December 17, 2009

Marrige, school, and jobs

So it has been seven months since I last posted anything. In fact, I forgot that I had a blog until a few days ago when my friend told me that now I was married it was the law that I must start blogging again. Here are some of the things I have learned about married people; 1 sleeping in the same bed takes some practice. 2 If the toilet seat is up there are other more important things that need to be discussed so just put it down yourself and pick a battle about something else. 3 Finding out that your husband is coming home and getting really excited about it is ok. 4 Being married is so much better than long distance. 5 Who knew that guys would honestly eat anything? Seriously, Randy eats the mold off cheese and likes it. Ew 6 I really like being married 7 I just wanted to end with seven things.
So marrige is fun and good. I like it. I like living in my own house, I love Randy, but the real life stress of school and finding jobs is hitting me hard. After the registrars office lost my transcripts today and I the institue doesn't have me on record as a living human being, I feel rather unknown and forgotten. I was finally able to register for classes this semester and it is going to be pretty technical. I am trying to get all of my rudimentary education classes done and over so that I can get into the education program in the fall of this year. Of course registering this late is a bad idea and all the classes that I want are full and have waiting lists with 9 people in them, but I will prevail. There is light at the end of this tunnel and I am going to rock the socks out of classes like Media Technology for Libraries. Although two of my classes are online and that scares me a little. I think that everything is going to be just fine. I just have to keep breathing.
Jobs are a whole other matter. I don't know how the rest of you stay at home people can do it. Money stress, boredom, and guilt play a huge roll in my life right now. I have a lot of things to do, I just don't want to do them. I still haven't gotten thank you cards out for reception gifts, but tomorrow is the goal to have them in the big blue mail box. Thanks for the gifts if I don't get the cards out. In Cedar City, the amount of people not graduated and the amount of people that are graduated are about the same, and everybody is looking for a job. The job economy is saturated. Needless to say, I am left swimming desperatly looking for anything. I guess this too will pass, just like it always does. I know everything is going to be fine, I just don't know how.
I am excited to see my family for Christmas and I want to tell everyone ah humbug because it is just the way I roll. I hope your holidays are good and that everyone has a splendid new year.
I'll give you a better blog of what Randy and I are up to in the next little while but for now, you get this.